October 19, Saturday
Edmund was the first to shower. He was already dressed up when I went inside the bathroom. We were in a hurry because we were checking out today.
A———-“Tart, can you hand me over your towel?”
E———-“Why?”
A———-“Akina, Iyan na lang gagamitin ko”.
E———-“Bakit wala na ba dyan?”
A———-“Meron pa, but I want to help the environment”.
E———-“Kumuha ka na lang ng bago, yan ang gamitin mo”.
A———-“Sayang, lalabhan pa nila….”
E———-“Anak ng siopao!”
I closed the door and took a shower. I used a new towel from the bathroom shelf.
Parang sayang, wisik-wisik lang naman ligo ko dahil nagmamadali. Ang laki=laki pa nung tuwalya.
Bakit nya ako sasabihan ng anak ng siopao? Dahil ba ang hapunan namin kagabi ay siopao, may hang-over pa sya?
Parang gusto kong sumama ang loob pero ayoko na lang mag-react. Simula ng ikasal kami, ngayon lang sya nagsalita ng ganyan. I think that’s hurtful. Did I say or do something bad? I just wanted to save water, detergent, labor, and help the environment.
Ayokong dibdibin ang sinabi nya, baka nadala lang ng silakbo ng damdamin.
Pero sino ba talaga ang sinasabihan nya ng anak ng siopao? Ako ba? Wala namang ibang tao sa kwarto, ako lang. After almost 30 years, first time he said that. Ganyan na ba ngayon, what more if 40 years na kami. Ano na kaya itatawag nya sa akin, anak ng tipaklong?
Ayokong magtampo kasi ako ang lalabas na killjoy. Siguro forgive and forget na lang dahil first offense. Pero sa susunod na ulitin pa nya yan na tawagin akong anak ng siopao, hindi ko na sya palalampasin.
Married couples must have an open communication. Next time he utters those words, I would really confront him. Kailangan malinaw ang usapan, at kung hindi, baka mahambalos ko sya.
Ano ba ang ibig nyang sabihin? He has to be specific. Ako ba ay asado o bola-bola? Baka naman iniisip nya na dahil matanda na ako eh yung siopao na may century egg na nangingitim na.
you’re so cute Ms. A!! 🙂 you remind me of my mom whenever she gets tampo with my dad… in the eyes of those outside the relationship, it may seem petty… pero women really loves to be courted eh, our own way of making lambing. <3
This is cute and funny Mam Annie. I would see my self as like Sir Edmund. Kaya ba ako iniwan ng asawa ko? 🙂
hahahaha. Thanks Pinggoy
Hi Annie
I think it is only an expression from Edmund. He probably just said what first came into his mind but it is not actually intended for you nor the way you look. In his part, it could be a harmless remark, does not mean any thing at all. But of course, we are not used into this kind of remark, no matter how innocent. It is good you have this blog and he will be able to read that you were offended.
I admire your awareness of the need to save the environment. I agree we should save our planet and re-using our towels makes a difference.
Hey, enjoy your vacation together and all the best in all his games. Take care you two.
Fondly
Rissa
Hi Rissa,
Basta I don’t want him to use that as an expression when it concerns about me. Thank you Rissa.
Hi Annie, ganyan na yata pag mejo matagal ng magkasama wala n yun sweetness at paglalambing… :(. All we have to do ay forget n lang this kind of situation at magpasensya n lang para maging smooth ang relationship. Wawa naman tau mga babae lagi n lang tau ang magpapasensya.