I often see women giving their guy an impromptu massage in public. Pressing the neck, back, shoulders, hand, arms. some even give their man a scalp massage in public. Kulang na lang magdala ng hot oil.
I have seen men putting their feet up their wife’s thighs while they’re in the restaurant. I’ve seen women giving feet massage under the table.
This is a frequent sight when I attend parties, at the restaurants, in public places.
Last Saturday afternoon, I went to Amici in Connecticut, Greenhills to kill time.
My next appointment was at 5:30 pm and I had an hour to spend.
There was a group of 28-35 year olds at the nearby table. There were 4 guys and 2 women. I could hear their conversation– they’re putting up a restaurant and the guys were clearly relying only on one guy. I am afraid for these guys. I have a feeling they would just lose their money. The looks on the their faces while listening the one guy presenting the study clearly showed they didn’t know anything about the restaurant business.
I felt aghast when one of the women stood up and stood behind her boyfriend and started giving him a back and shoulder rub.
I squinted my eyes and purposely made sure that the woman could see me my facial reaction.
I would throw a fit if I were her mother. She made herself look ridiculous by standing behind his chair, while all of us in the restaurant were seated. Except for the waiters and bus boys. Mukha syang yaya, dapat nag-uniform sya.
I wanted to ask her if I could be her next customer.
There are many ways to show your man you love him dearly. But ladies, please don’t make yourself look stupid by acting like a masseuse in public. Do that in private, not in the restaurant or public place. Okay lang siguro if you’re in the park. Picture yourself as one of the women giving the mafia boss a massage while he drinks, smokes, and gambles. And when he’s done, he motions you with his hand to tsupiiii.
Excellent blog. I believe that massage must be done in private. Women should not act like they are men’s nanny.