I am going to make tsismis about my daughter’s love life. He he he. She might get mad.

They celebrated their one month last Tuesday officially as boyfriend-girlfriend. Ganyan na ngayon, merong pang opi-official.

Happy Monthsarry roses.
Monthsarry roses

Who is he? Some info:
He is 3 1/2 years older than my daughter.
He is the youngest in their brood of 4.
He lives siguro 3 – 4 kilometers away from our house but walking distance to the tiangge.
He went to Xavier and DLSU.
He’s 5’11 and so puti.

There are two things about him that I think Edmund would like:
1. He is thin. Remember, Edmund is allergic to fatness.
2. He plays golf with a handicap 14.

She said it didn’t feel like one month because they’ve been dating for 8 months. Ha? Ganun na pala katagal. Pero date lang yun, not yet official. When the guy asked her the third time around if she could be his girlfriend, she agreed na rin kasi in the beginning she didn’t want labels daw. Pakipot? Someone advised her to take it easy, not really to be pakipot but just to keep it slow. Wink wink.

I have met her boyfriend a few times. He’s been to our house a couple of times.
He went to church with us last Saturday and we had dinner together last friday.
I was the one who invited him to go to church with us. He should see what we are, who we are and how we are as a family.

I didn’t want to analyze him too much. Kasi even before he met my daughter, I was just relying on prayers. That God chooses. Of course he knows the basic requirements (hhahahah).

Well, it’s too soon to tell where their friendship is going. My advise to Oyen is just to take it slow and easy. Just enjoy each others company and cultivate friendship. Many couples jump into bed right away and forget the “getting to know you” portion.

They should spend more time talking and talking and talking. Talking on just about anything. You test if you have the same perception and analysis of things. Same values, same idealism, same beliefs, same likes, same dislikes. But a good relationship doesn’t mean everything must be the same. What you have to find out is how the other person responds to things that he hates but you like.

Maraming sako pa ng bigas ang kakainin nila before they discover the true meaning of love. That one true love that would make a person risk his/her whole life living with that person believing that it would be a fairytale, forever.

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