Every time I watch the news there’s always a report about a female victim of sextortionist. The guy she met online or chat group is blackmailing her by threatening to post her nude photos and their sex videos.
Nung araw ang kahihiyan na matatamo ng isang dalaga ay yung ipamalita ng kasuyo nya na hinawakan na sya, naghalikan na sila, nagkita sila sa likod ng simbahan, o umakyat sila dun sa madilim na kalbaryo at naglampungan sila o nagdate sila sa pritil. Pagka ang iyong nobyo ay sex lang talaga ang gusto sa’yo, daldapunga pa (my mom’s term for tsismoso), ipapamalita nya sa kalapitbahay nila, sa tapat bahay, sa likod bahay at kung hindi pa sya nakuntento, idadaldal pa nya ang inyong sikreto sa mga taga ibang-baryo.
Salita lang yun, walang litrato o video na ebidensya. Pero sapat na yung pag-usapan para hindi na lumabas ng bahay ang babae sa sobrang hiya.
Times have completely changed so be careful. Don’t be victimized by men who are evil, or evil men who are parading as romantic lovers.
They are using technology as a tool for their vicious goal.
There are cellphones with three high-definition cameras front and back.
There are also tiny cameras that can be hidden.
More and more women ask for the NBI and police’s help to catch the sextortionists who threaten to post their nude photos and sex videos. Mga cheap men who want free sex and free cash.
Kasalanan nyo rin minsan, sobrang feeling sexy, nagse selfie kayo ng nude tapos kayo rin naman ang nagpo-post minsan.
Paano ba natin maiiwasan na mapunta sa ganitong sitwasyon?
Una—- Huwag masyadong atat sa lalaki. Control your urge, sex urge. Kilatisin nyo muna bago nyo sunggaban. Madalas babae ang nauuna kaya hayan ang napapala ninyo.
Pangalawa—- You can never be sure about the guy’s motives. Is he truly in-love with you? I think the chances that the guy only want sex is higher. Never assume that the guy is in love with you most especially if you’ve only known each other for a week, a month, several months. Kung limang taon na kayong nagde-date, puro kiss-kiss lang, baka sakali type ka nga nya at busilak ang kanyang damdamin.
Pangatlo—–Hindi na natin masisiguro kung malinis talaga ang intention sa iyo nung lalaki kaya bago ka maghubad, kunin mo muna ang celphone nya, kapkapan mo, sya muna ang paghubarin mo at baka meron pang mga ibang gadget. Kahit patay ang ilaw kita pa rin kayo because cameras have night vision. Huwag pumunta sa bahay o apartment o condo nya. Do it in your territory para sigurado ka walang mga ikinabit na cameras habang wala ka.
Pang-apat—-There are also men who fall prey to evil women. My advice is to use the same kind of protection. Don’t take off your clothes while having sex. Wear pajamas. Go to Shoppesville in Greenhills, San Juan. There are several stores on the ground floor selling loose pajamas with garters on the waist and an opening in the front. Buy the XXL.
For women, it’s just common sense. Para walang nude photos eh di huwag mag-nude. Don’t take off your clothes. Magdaster ka na lang. Sexy rin naman ang naka daster. It will weed-out those guys who only want sex. Your daster will also tell you if the guy wants to be your lifelong partner. Ako nga araw-araw naka daster. Kaya napakalinis ng intention ng asawa ko. Look only no touch.
Ladies, if you can’t sleep at night eto na lang pag-trip-an nyo.
Ingat lang at baka kayo makuryente.
