Simple advise for an anonymous Oh My Buhay male reader:
Having a well educated wife, affluent, with a flourishing career, with a very strong character BUT with bad ugali are loud warnings : go find your own job, be your own man, earn your own living. You will become a better person and a happier husband if you have financial independence. You have to have some money so you could buy your own needs and wants without asking money from your wife. If you have no income, eh paano when you want to buy a new pair of walking shoes, hihingi ka ng pera sa wife mo? You will ask for her approval? Or use her credit card?
Devoting your days and nights driving for her, cooking, doing laundry and errands for her and for the whole family, are noble deeds but not good for your self-esteem. When she’s in a bad mood, she screams and shouts at you, scratches your face, and treats you like trash. Kasi walang respeto sayo. Siya reyna, pero tingin nya sayo, hindi ka hari, kundi muchacho.
Assuming your wife is nicer, without bad ugali, still, go get a job, separate from what she’s doing. Earn a living, at least for yourself. Even if the pay is not big, but at least pera mo yun. If you want to buy her a gift, pera mo yun. Hindi galing sa kanya.
