My husband had a perfect timing yesterday afternoon. I was already inside the car and about to open the garage when he called me on Viber. He asked what was wrong. I just started crying. Sobra akong disappointed and inis.
I told him lagi na lang palpak ang decisions ko. He said I am not palpak. Hindi daw ako palpak kasi kung palpak ako eh di wala kami ngayon kung nasaan man kami ngayon. He said problems happen because we are too kind. Inaako namin problema ng ibang tao because we want to help. He said I have to change and be more firm. Maawain nga kasi ako and too trusting. He said I am too kind. Pero pagkami ang may problema, no one comes to help us.
Lately he likes to say that everything happens for a reason. Ako naman is the opposite, hindi ko maintindihan bakit nangyayari yun and I always ask “bakit nangyari yun?” He has a better approach in life. Me, full of regrets.
He is right. We care too much for other people but no one cares about us.
And people are salbahe, greedy. Mabait lang kasi merong tulong na inaasahan pero kung wala, lumalabas ang mga tunay na ugali, mga salbahe. They see us as opportunities.
When my husband said “huwag ka ng umiyak, hayaan mo na yan, everything happens for a reason…..”
Parang nabawasan ang bigat ng dibdib ko. I still cried and until now my tears still fall sa inis sa nangyayari pero I will be okay. Basta wala tayong ginagawang masama sa ibang tao, tutoo ang pakita natin sa kanila, hindi tayo pwedeng magsinungaling, malaking tulong ang ginawa natin, bahala na nga sila.
#choosetobegood
We are somehow the same in this among friends and relatives. Bad experiences from them thought me not just to trust too much. Still I help those deserving and really need it. Don’t regret failures for your good intentions are changed for more blessings!
Thank you Thony.
Our generosity is God’s gift to others who needs our help..true madalas pag tayo may needs hindi natin sila ma asahan, pero the truth is there are other people sent by God to help us.I’ve proven it many times. 🙂
Love your article Mam. 🙂
You are right. Thank you Emily.
Ms Annie.. ❤ i have learned early on in life that even if we want to do good and be good and be kind to others, someone will always take advantage of our kindness and generosity and use it for their own selfish motives..
But then again, kahit na sinusuklian pa nila ng kasamaan ang mga kabutihan na ginagawa mo sa kanila at para sa kanila, hayaan mo na lang sila kc si Papa God na ang bahala sa kanila..
Wag ka magsasawa na gumawa ng MABUTI at TAMA sa kapwa mo.. lahat naman yan nakikita ni Papa God and HE knows what’s in ur heart.. ❤
GOd will BLESS YOU for all the good things u have done for those who are in need, becoz YOU CHOOSE TO DO GOOD and BE GOOD.. ❤
At the end of the day, that’s all that really matters… ❤
God bless u always and pls don’t feel bad abt the decisions u made,. You knew in ur heart that HELPING THEM was the BEST THING u can do, but they still chose to take advantage of ur kindness and generosity..
SILA na ang may problema dun, HINDI IKAW, Ms Annie.. ❤❤❤
Thank you Pam. Always.
Hi Miss Annie, madami talagang salbahe and oportunista. Ingat nalang po next time, don’t be too trusting. You’re too nice and they take advantage of your generosity.
God bless you and your family!
Thank you Pinay Geek. Regards.
Annie kung anuman ang nawala sa iyo, ay ibabalik din sa iyo ng poong maykapal! Kasi wala kang sawa sa pagtulong. Sa mga nanloko alam mo na ngayon kung sino sila. Di na sila makakakita ng katulad mo. Lahat ng gawa mabuti o masama ay sumusunod sa batas ng karma. Ang mahalsga ay maging masaya ka dahil may mapagmahal kang asawa at mga anak!
Maraming salamat Dr. Ped. Miss ko na kayong lahat classmates.
God bless Ms Annie.
Thank you Lonely Girl
I have always admired your goodness Ms. Annie. Having met Mr. Yee I can also see why you two were meant to be. A kind soul who has a supportive husband, perfect combination. Sa hirap at ginhawa talaga. Reading this, I also feel blessed to have a husband who comforts me when I feel down. I pray you’ll get through this Ms. Annie. Never regret choosing to do good and be good. That hashtag is also my mantra. #choosetodogood
It’s indeed important in a marriage to have a supportive spouse and family. We give each other strength.
Thank you Lei.
God bless to you and to your family ninang…. don’t think too much. Just enjoy life and count your blessings….
Isa sa mga taong tinitingala ko is si ninong… madami ako natutunan sa kanya about life and realities ng buhay kaya kahit bago pa lang kami dati magkakilala kinuha ko na sya ninong…and sobrang happy ako nun pumayag sya…
More power!
Maraming salamat Pong.
“Yes, everything happens for a reason and that we should strive to know and do the will of God. We should always do the kindest things.”
Thank you so much Rick.
You are such a kind and sensitive soul An. Never tire in doing good. God bless you and your family always.
Thank you Alvin.