A lot of people are still sending me frantic requests to help them find a witch to catch a spell on their spouse and his/ her paramour. A paramour is defined as a lover of a married person.
Sometimes I respond to their messages but in most cases I don’t. I apologize to those who did not receive any response from me.
I commiserate with them but I get too stressed out thinking about it. What to say, what to tell them, what to advise. I’ve said it many times in my past posts, pag-ayaw tumigil ng misis or mister mo, just let go no matter how painful it is.
Here are some of my thoughts.
- There are rampant infidelities among couples. Couples who live together in one house, in one room, sleeping on the same bed ay nagle-left turn pa rin. What more if you are apart, or one is working abroad. The risk and temptation multiplies by a thousand folds. You are not around to deter him or her from communicating— texting, calling, seeing, the person he/she is flirting with. So ang uwi talaga nyan ay physical and emotional relationship. Para silang mga single. Yung ngang magkasama na kayo araw-araw sa loob ng kotse, sa bahay, sa hapag-kainan ay nakikipaglandian pa sa ibang tao, text ng text, eh lalo na kung wala ka. Libreng-libre sila na magkita, walang istorbo. I don’t know what you can do to stop their relationship if you are in another country.
- Case # 1—- Your wife is in Cavite, you are in Saudi. At night she feels lonely and itchy and you are not there. So paano mo yan pipigilin? Kailangan kang umuwi para personal mo syang kausapin. Kung sa telepono lang, mangangako lang yun pero matutukso na naman sya. Lalo na kung bata pa ang asawa mo, naghahanap pa yan ng gimmick and happenings. Gusto pa nyan magpa charming. The first thing that you do to protect your children and your hard-earned money is to STOP SENDING HER MONEY. Baka duon lang yun mapupunta sa kalapit bahay mo, kay kumpare, sa tricycle driver. Rendahan mo na kasi mauubus yung pera na akala mo eh iniipon nya. Ikaw na lang ang mag-hawak ng pera nyo. Yung kailangan na lang ng mga bata sa pag-aaral ang ipadala mo. Wala tayong kilala na bruha or witch or albularyo or mangkukulam na makakatulong sa inyo para mawala ang pagkahumaling ng asawa mo dun sa lalaki. Hindi sya nakulam. Naakit sya. Naloko sa ibang lalaki.
3. If your husband or partner desires to have a relationship with other women, even if you are beside him he would find ways to cheat. What more when you are thousands of miles away?
The same is true with women. You are working in Abu Dhabi while your husband is in Pampanga.
Hindi sya nakulam, naakit sya ng ibang babae. At naghahanap talaga sya. Dahil kung ang asawa mo ay matino at mahal ka talaga, kahit may bumukaka pa na kasing ganda at sexy ni Pia Wurtzback sa harap nya, hindi nya yun papatulan. Wag kang maniwala at umasa na mapipigil mo ang asawa mo sa pangbabae pag ipinakulam mo. Wala akong kilala na tutoong mangkukulam and don’t waste your money paying someone who claims he or she can help you stop your husband from gallivanting with another woman. Sayang lang ang pera mo. Stop sending your husband money.
Pag-ayaw na sa’yo, bumitaw ka na. Set yourself free.
I sincerely hope all those who are having marital problems would be able to sort things out, whether to stay together or go separate ways. I know it’s a tough problem and there’s no easy solution.
Don’t look for witches to help you. They can’t. I can’t either. You are the only ones who can solve your own problems.
Be tough, be strong and keep your faith.
Please choose to be the good guys.
