This is the continuation of the Life Story of Ron (page 4) which is more like his love story. Ron doesn’t trust other people when it comes to his personal information. When I told him I wanted to interview him about his life he readily agreed. I told him I would post the story on my blog. During our early conversations, I found his struggles inspiring and it could motivate a lot of Ohmybuhay readers. When I finally got a piece of paper to make sure I remembered the accurate events, his stories became centered on his love story. I would like to thank him for being generous with his time and his story.
I changed the name of the woman to protect her privacy. If your name happens to be Brenda, this is not you I hope.
Ron hurriedly left the Philippines to the US with a broken heart. The girl of his dreams whom he was planning to marry for life married another guy she probably thought was better than Ron.
A few years after quietly living and working in the US, Ron came back to the Philippines for a holiday. By luck he saw his former girlfriend / fiancee Brenda walking inside a shopping mall. They were both happy to have bumped into each other. They went out to eat and they spent hours talking about their lives, trying to catch up. She’s married with 4 kids and her husband apparently was out of the country that week. Ron rode in Brenda’s car and according to him, they were not able to contain their emotions and they kissed while inside her car. The heavy downpour provided them with the perfect curtain to conceal their hugging and kissing.
Brenda —-“Punta tayo sa Lido Beach”.
Brenda knew exactly where to bring him. When they reached the resort, she was the one who checked in and got a room. Ron noticed how dirty the surroundings were. While his lady love was preparing for what could be a night of passion, Ron was busy assessing the less than desirable room and swatting dozens of large mosquitoes trying to bite him. He has lived in the US and he’s no longer used to mosquito bites. His standards have also leveled up. He noticed the mattress was old, thin and it was just placed on top of a papag (bamboo bed) and not on a real bed (not American standards). He kept on complaining to Brenda that the place was so dirty and ugly.
Brenda–“Meron pa akong ibang alam na lugar, 15 minutes away”.
How come Brenda knew all this seedy and hidden places?
She brought Ron to the hotel which according to him looked like Sogo from the outside.
Brenda was the one aggressive and ready while he was just seated and watching her. She took off her clothes in front of him and it was the very first time that he saw her naked body. Remember? He respected her and didn’t want to have sex till after their wedding. He reserved and preserved his virginity for her. Inilagay nya si Brenda sa dambana.
When he saw her breasts, he got turned-off and shocked.
Ron—-“Alam mo An, parang yung sa unggoy and suso nya, yung laylay na”.
I couldn’t help but burst into laughter when he said that.
Ron—-“Puro kamot ang balat nya, nadiri ako”. “Minahal ko sya, iginalang ko sya, pero hindi ko akalain na ganyan pala. Hindi ko alam ang mga bagay-bagay, turn off ako talaga”.
(Moral lesson to readers: Huwag magkamot. Magpahid ng Katialis).
Brenda noticed that Ron was just staring and not making any moves.
Brenda—“Ano bang problema mo?”
Ron——“Wala, hindi ko feel. I don’t know we would end up like this. Nuon iginalang kita, inilagay kita sa dambana, magpapakasal tayo, magha-honeymoon….”
Brenda—-“Why don’t you take something?”
Ron——-“What something?”
Brenda—-“Ecstacy, shabu, marijuana, meron akong dala”.
Ron was shocked and couldn’t believe what was going on.
Brenda—–“Kung gumamit ka nito makapag fantasy ka”.
Ron got offended and mad —-“I’ve never tried any drug in my life even marijuana”.
Ron said the more he got turned-off with Brenda.
Ron—–“Let’s go home I’m tired I want to go and sleep”.
Brenda even told him she and her husband have a very good sex life. They have threesomes daw. Sometimes they get an extra girl, extra boy or both.
The more Ron got shocked and wanted to get out of there as fast as he could.
He told her “I don’t do any of that shit”.
to be continued
Brenda sounds cray cray. Buti di sila nagkatuluyan ni Ron.
That’s exactly what I told him.